[Little thought] First crush

So, are you a believer of first crush lover? Sorry to be disappointing, I am not. I can't believe when people tell me that they fall in love with someone they just met once. What the hell! Do you know about him or her? Do you really know about her character? The age? The name? Do you?

I am damn mad when my friend told me that she had a crush on a guy who she only met for 2 times. Well, just two times and you told me that you like him?! Wth. I really want to ask you why are you so worry about your relationship and can't wait for a longer time and see if you really like him. Do you understand what does it mean by like and love? She is just a 22 years old girl and seems so tempted to be in a relationship as soon as possible. She is the kind of person who will ever bring you a big surprise when she is home. This is one of the example.

People may think if I am overreacted or being too conservative when talking about this but I am not, to be honest. I won't agree this kind of relationship no matter who they are, my friends, sister or strangers. Why don't just let it slow down, see what happen next and then only you determine whether you are having a crush on him? Life is short but isn't that short, oh my dear! We just don't want to see you get hurt.

I don't know what is happening to my friends but there is also another story which one of my best girl friend is dating a guy who only know for 2 weeks. My godness, 2 weeks! How can it be!! I had so much to say but I just didn't know how to start. She asked me about my opinion, obviously I told her I wouldn't agree with it but I emphasized that that was my point of view, please do not get influence by me because this is all about herself. She then rejected him but accepted him after a few days past. The reason being is that she thinks this is the precious opportunity for her to date someone while studying in the university. So, this is her reason. She told me how jealous she was when she saw couples holding hands when walking on the street, watching movie together, dating and bla bla bla. Wth + whf.

I really can't get the point of it. So these are the reason you accept him. Oh well, I can't say anything since that is your decision. I have already given you my advice and that is it, my job is done.  I just hope both of you could get along well.

Okay, I am done with complaining. That means I have to continue my study. Haven't been putting effort on my study nowadays. So much regret, I should concentrate more on study. WTF.